So, you’ve always been a sucker for a good business trip. You’ve spent weeks planning, buying, and then, when it finally arrives, you’re so excited to see it. But, as soon as you step into your hotel room, you are told that the hotel isn’t ready to receive you. The walls are not plastered with inspirational quotes. The bed isn’t made. The coffee machine is not working.
This is one of those situations that really makes me question whether or not I should even be there. My business trip was supposed to be a fun little getaway to see my family. But, instead of one of us coming home with a full load of happy memories Ive spent hours planning, Ive spent my days and weeks planning to make my family miserable. I dont know if this is the right thing to do, but it really sucks to be the one who brings a negative experience home.
This is actually a pretty typical scenario we see a lot of, and the reason is that we often make plans to do things that we think will do something good for us, only to find that we are doing things that do us harm. Like leaving our cars running when it rains (in addition to all the other problems you get if you do this with a heavy load of heavy stuff), or eating in front of the television.
It’s easy to see why we might experience this. If you have a big, long list of plans, then you can probably get away with it. You can go to bed early, and if you aren’t drunk or very tired, you won’t have any trouble sticking to it. But if the list is short and you have a lot of plans, then it becomes just another thing you have to worry about.
I’m not so sure about your list. Your friends have the same problems as you; they can only do two things:1. Have them think that you are not going to do anything, and2. Be able to do something about it. You need to think about what you want to do, and what you have to do. Here’s the thing: if you have a long list of things you want to do, then it’s best to just go over it.
Why not just go with your friends? A lot of people will hate you for it, but you can still do what you want. It’s not like you don’t have to go to a party and have them pick their favorite food. You have to go for it. You need to get to know people more and then you can get to know yourself more.
If you have a long list of things you want to do, then its best to just go over it and see if you like something you don’t like. If you get it right, then its not like you always have to do it. Youre not a slave. You can do whatever you want.
If you’re going to do your own thing, then its better to have a group of people that know what you want to do. You wont have to do it.
If you want to see what I mean, you can check out my site to see a list of things I don’t like.
